Femme Fabulous

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Let’s play “Never Have I Ever”. Cross out all of the things that you have done. You might just see that there are people just like you out there.

Sexual

• Never have I ever had a boyfriend/girlfriend.
• Never have I ever kissed a girl.
• Never have I ever kissed a boy.
• Never have I ever received/given a blowjob, hand job, eating out.
• Never have I ever had sex.
• Never have I ever fallen in love.
• Never have I ever cheated on someone.
• Never have I ever been cheated on.
• Never have I ever sexted.

Life

• Never have I ever gotten into a fight.
• Never have I ever done something illegal.
• Never have I ever gotten wasted.
• Never have I ever used an illegal drug.
• Never have I ever snuck out.
• Never have I ever stolen something.
• Never have I ever vandalized something.
• Never have I ever lost a family member due to death.
• Never have I ever been in a life or death situation.
• Never have I ever been arrested.
• Never have I ever been fired from a job.

Emotions

• Never have I ever wanted to kill someone because in the moment I hated them that much.
• Never have I ever been kept up at night due to guilt.
• Never have I ever laughed so hard I cried.
• Never have I ever been abused physically.
• Never have I ever cried myself to sleep.
• Never have I ever wished that I was someone else.
• Never have I ever wanted to kill myself.
• Never have I ever tried to kill myself.
• Never have I ever felt like an outcast.
• Never have I ever wanted to do something just so I would fit in.

Friendships

• Never have I ever ruined my friendship with someone.
• Never have I ever had a friend leave me for other people.
• Never have I ever been kicked out of a friend group.
• Never have I ever wished that I had different friends.
• Never have I ever wanted to fuck one of my friends. (whoops)
• Never have I ever wished that I could be more than friends with someone.
• Never have I ever wished I was friends with the popular people.
• Never have I ever been friendless.

School

• Never have I ever failed a test.
• Never have I ever cut class.
• Never have I ever had to eat alone.
• Never have I ever failed a course.
• Never have I ever been suspended.
• Never have I ever received detention.
• Never have I ever passed notes/texted in class.
• Never have I ever made out with someone in school.
• Never have I ever dropped out of school/college.

(Source: seriously-idgaf)

world-of-whit:

burnsietransitioning:

I hear people get onto the bisexual label as not being inclusive of trans people, but I find this problematic in several ways.  It implies that trans men and women exist outside of the gender binary, and most trans people I’ve met just want to be seen as members of their target gender.  Sure there are those people that identify as genderqueer, and I guess for some reason they want to be seen as some third gender, but when the average passerby sees them they either categorize them as a man or a woman.  If you are attracted to both sexes and see trans men and women as men and women then bisexual is the correct label.  If you’re attracted to both genders but classify transgender people as some freakish third gender then I guess Pan is the label for you.

SERIOUSLY? Are you being serious? 

Go fuck yourself. 

“It implies that trans men and women exist outside of the gender binary.”

• No it fucking doesn’t. Trans men are men, trans women are women. They are within the binary. Genderqueer? Genderfluid? Androgynous? Bigender? Trigender? Genderfuck? Yea, where the fuck do they go? Oh yea, they’re outside the binary. Thus “bisexual” doesn’t recognize or respect their gender. Thus “Pan” is the better choice since trans* people aren’t just males or female. 

“Sure there are those people that identify as genderqueer, and I guess for some reason they want to be seen as some third gender.” 

• “I guess for some reason”? Quite possibly could it be the same reason that you, yourself, are trans*? No, that could never be the case. How could I be so ignorant? 

“But when the average passerby sees them they either categorize them as a man or a woman.”

• Glad to know that our gender identities are only valid if other people recognize them and address us as such. 

“If you are attracted to both sexes and see trans men and women as men and women then bisexual is the correct label.”

• Yea, bisexual is the correct label for that. Because you’re sticking to only being attracted within the binary. Plus you’re only recognizing and respecting people’s gender identities that are within the binary and then erasing the identities of people who fall outside the binary should you happen to be attracted to them. Plus there are more than two sexes, just like there are more than two genders. Amazing, right? 

“If you’re attracted to both genders but classify transgender people as some freakish third gender then I guess Pan is the label for you.”

• There are more than two genders. If you classify binary trans* people as a third gender then you’re a fucking cissexist prick; but if you classify a non-binary person’s gender as not being in the binary, you’re being a grade A respectful person. 

Tl;dr Pansexual is great as it recognizes the fact that there are more than two genders and two sexes. However, if you as an individual aren’t attracted to people of all genders and sexes (pansexual), then polysexual is the term for you: it’s just like bisexual, but it recognizes that there are more than two genders and sexes. 

And fuck you for calling non-binary people “freakish.” 

You are fucking awesome please keep being this super awesomeness of awesome.

world-of-whit:

burnsietransitioning:

This is just how I see the majority of the trans community on Tumblr

The obnoxious MtFs:

-“Look at my penis isn’t it so feminine?  How dare you say after looking at my dick that I’m not a biological woman!”

-“I don’t pass at all and I haven’t started hormones yet but how dare all those CIS SCUM look at me funny for wearing a dress.  Can’t they see I’m a woman!! WOMAN!

-“I identify as male but prefer female pronouns.”

Unfortunately for the Ftms though, it appears that the majority of what people would refer to as “transgenders” claim to be in their camp:

-“I’m a man but I’m going to show off my breasts in this super cute low cut top”

-“How dare they misgender me even though I’m not on T and was wearing a dress!”

-“Look at my vagina it’s SSOOO manly!”

-“I identify as male but I don’t have any gender dysphoria and prefer being seen as a woman”

Those are the first obnoxious statements from Tumblr Trans people that came to my head, if you think of more feel free to reblog and add stuff.

Here’s an addition to the list: Everything you just fucking wrote.

Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but you are the “obnoxious MtF.”

Now why is that?

For starters this entire post is based on a “trannier than thou” complex, where if a trans* person is not fitting into your schema of “how a trans* person should act,” they are then less of a trans* person.  

You’re argue to deny non-binary trans* people their identities. 

How the fuck is a trans woman’s penis not feminine, or a trans man’s vagina not masculine? I don’t have a have a pocket of masculinity surrounding my dick, just as another trans* person doesn’t have a pocket of what they were assigned at birth surrounding their genitals: A trans person’s genitals is just as feminine, masculine, androgynous, etc.. as the rest of them. They are wholly (body, mind, etc..) the gender they identify as. In addition to that biology is not destiny, there is a difference between sex and gender. And before you even start, a person’s genitals isn’t the only thing that determines their sex. 

Moving on, quit bashing on people who haven’t been able to start their transition for who knows what reasons. Bring on hormones is a privilege, so go sit the fuck down and check your privilege. 

Quit bashing on people who aren’t privileged enough to pass (as cis) by society’s standards. Again, if you pass as cis it’s a fucking privilege. Address this notion in yourself.  

Quit ragging on people who love their body and parts of their body, even if it seems “wrong” to you. 

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transgalacticwanderer:

heresmynumberkillmemaybe:

crackerhell:

taleth:

nines19:

protip: not everyone experiences triggers in the same way

protip: not all triggered states manifest as flashbacks

protip: PTSD is not the only condition that triggers exist for

There are people on tumblr who will fight with you on this.

I’m not one of them

there are white people on tumblr who will fight with you on this

I don’t understand what the problem with the original post is or what it has to do with race would someone mind explaining if it’s not too much trouble? Like I’m not saying it’s not problematic I just don’t see the problem. 

same here, I really don’t why race would be a factor in these situations, I’ve run into a variety of douchebags who don’t respect triggers and race was never the primary distinction. 

In my experience, Caucasians are the demographic least likely to understand privilege at all. Triggers do kind of come down to privilege in my opinion. However, this should probably be updated to “There are SAWCSMS that will fight you on this.” if it’s going to go in that vein. In my personal experience, at least, white people in general are the group that I have the hardest time explaining anything to, and are the most likely to argue back on something they don’t really understand. I’m not saying I agree with the original post making the white distinction (I still think SAWCSMS would be a better distinction), I’m just trying to extrapolate on their reasoning behind it a bit. Of course, anecdotal bias, and YMMV.